Time and tide wait for no man. A pompous and self-satisfied proverb, and was true for a billion years; but in our day of electric wires and water-ballast we turn it around: Man waits not for time nor tide, but he needs to beat time and go for what he loves.....
Our world today has been whirled around so much that we dont even realise it, if we are doing something wrong or right......Why??? because everyone is doing the same thing, leaving no one to tell the truth. I knew a woman who spent most of her time working...she worked like 16 hours a week. After a hard days work she would come home and meet a husband, who makes her feel even worse...... this same woman receives a call, being told that a close relative is seriously ill.....She goes to bed in the fear that she might be able to wake up on time for work, since she needed to stay up late the night before to finish up some house chores.
This may seem like a one time scenario....but believe you me... there are people going through this on a regular bases. Stress is something that kills our soul and eventually our physical body.... As soon as one learns to turn stress into a positive output, one has mastered his life....
The key to being a master of this is ....to see the positive aspects of every situation as the day goes on ..... this will help you relax and help you in actually, making the right decisions... say Thank you God, if you like something in your life. Say am sorry with a smile, if you offend someone...... and definately say please if you need something....
All, am saying is problems can lead to self-destruction......to avoid it appretiate what you already have achieved....i do that always and i actually see more good things flowing into my life.....till then.......keep your head up
Tuesday, 5 August 2008
Wednesday, 30 July 2008
The Spasm Of Emotion Sevring As Ignition To Love
Hurrrrrrayyyy!!!!!, that is what a mans soul says when he is in love......a little parodysm bringing about a whole new era of tangling up of emotions, feelings and even dreams....this summer holidays is one of the greatest in ma life if not the greatest.......Well, the one I fell in love with always promises me better holidays to come ....In reality , I believe her so am sort of looking foward to it ....haaaaaaaaaaaa, it feels tremendous to fall in love and see huge future prospects with the person one cherishes and loves.....
OK, lets get to todays theme..."If love be the fruit of Music play on" Duke Orsino (Shakespeare). Most of the time, I have seen people fall in love, break up and even come back together. I have given advice to the ones with problems in their relationships. I even give enormous praises to the ones that try to keep their relationships on track, it aint that easy. But what I have actually learnt from all of this is that, ....... Couples dont find the connection between each other...................... Instead of finding the necesities of your partener, we go straight thinking about wordly things. i.e. money, sexuality, status etc. . Trust me there is someone out there who probably outbeats your partner on any of these qualities mentioned....
As i fell in love , i looked out for the things this girl has, that no other girl has ..... the way she talks, her morals, he atitude towards others.etc and other personalized stuff...Noticing how sexy she is, is just not enough..Why? because there are loads of others that might be more sexy....as a loving partner u need to look for the things that make your partner special....i.e.., her cute smile, her attitude towards others...etc...???...
By making such critical notices brings you and your partner in harmony in understanding that you are both perfect creatures... Duke Orsino taught he loved Olivia but in reality he just loved the process of falling in love...see your loved ones as perfect creatures and they will be ...its that simple.
OK, lets get to todays theme..."If love be the fruit of Music play on" Duke Orsino (Shakespeare). Most of the time, I have seen people fall in love, break up and even come back together. I have given advice to the ones with problems in their relationships. I even give enormous praises to the ones that try to keep their relationships on track, it aint that easy. But what I have actually learnt from all of this is that, ....... Couples dont find the connection between each other...................... Instead of finding the necesities of your partener, we go straight thinking about wordly things. i.e. money, sexuality, status etc. . Trust me there is someone out there who probably outbeats your partner on any of these qualities mentioned....
As i fell in love , i looked out for the things this girl has, that no other girl has ..... the way she talks, her morals, he atitude towards others.etc and other personalized stuff...Noticing how sexy she is, is just not enough..Why? because there are loads of others that might be more sexy....as a loving partner u need to look for the things that make your partner special....i.e.., her cute smile, her attitude towards others...etc...???...
By making such critical notices brings you and your partner in harmony in understanding that you are both perfect creatures... Duke Orsino taught he loved Olivia but in reality he just loved the process of falling in love...see your loved ones as perfect creatures and they will be ...its that simple.
Thursday, 5 June 2008
Negative energy in our surroundings
From childhood till now, we have been thaught to always consider what can go wrong in every situation and take precautions to avoid the worst. Pedestrians pay attention to traffics to avoid ACCIDENTS, we go to school in order not to FAIL in life, we watch news and share emotions on issues like, the WAR against TERRORISM, WAR against AIDS....WAR against DRUGS...........................
All I am saying is that, all religions teach us to think positively in other to succeed. All religions tell us to forget about DOUBT and FEAR.......and live by faith and hope..... they all also promise that if we follow this positive energy, we would get what ever we want. But the thing that draws us away from our dream world are the little bad things that keep on happening in our life that we feel bad about......
Basically, the universe is governed by laws that are beyond our understanding. All we have to do is to stay in a positive vibe.....the Universe will then re- arrange itself to meet our needs..... But what we need to know is that during the process of re- arrangement bad things might happen...these bad things happend in other to bring us closer to our wish ...so we actually should not feel bad about it but rather happy because the universe is answering......
Not all things in our lives will be good but alls things coming together will be good. I believed this and it actually works for me. Till then, spread positivity
All I am saying is that, all religions teach us to think positively in other to succeed. All religions tell us to forget about DOUBT and FEAR.......and live by faith and hope..... they all also promise that if we follow this positive energy, we would get what ever we want. But the thing that draws us away from our dream world are the little bad things that keep on happening in our life that we feel bad about......
Basically, the universe is governed by laws that are beyond our understanding. All we have to do is to stay in a positive vibe.....the Universe will then re- arrange itself to meet our needs..... But what we need to know is that during the process of re- arrangement bad things might happen...these bad things happend in other to bring us closer to our wish ...so we actually should not feel bad about it but rather happy because the universe is answering......
Not all things in our lives will be good but alls things coming together will be good. I believed this and it actually works for me. Till then, spread positivity
Wednesday, 28 May 2008
Revitalisation of the soul and mind
Well, you haven't heard from me in a bit now. I was packing my stuff to leave for Germany. I study Biomedical Science but have summer holidays now. The last two days was quite tedious. I am glad to be back home where I can relax.
Most of the time, we (humans) do things in the aspiration of receiving something special,in the long run. However, this abiguity bursts, like a baloon, right in front of us and we loose all hope. But what we forget is that, those hurdles are telling us how hard we strained ourselves to get where we are today;the mental stress, hardships, etc. Basically, without the pit-falls we would not appreciate what we have and even are about to achieve.
Over the years, we are bound to trip several times, but that is why we have loved ones around us to hold us upright. I'm back home and my family is very happy, especially my kid brother.I always try to feel emotionaly positive because it is food to the soul.
Most of the time, we (humans) do things in the aspiration of receiving something special,in the long run. However, this abiguity bursts, like a baloon, right in front of us and we loose all hope. But what we forget is that, those hurdles are telling us how hard we strained ourselves to get where we are today;the mental stress, hardships, etc. Basically, without the pit-falls we would not appreciate what we have and even are about to achieve.
Over the years, we are bound to trip several times, but that is why we have loved ones around us to hold us upright. I'm back home and my family is very happy, especially my kid brother.I always try to feel emotionaly positive because it is food to the soul.
Sunday, 25 May 2008
Set the Ball rolling
Hi, most friends call me richy. This is not because am rich or something... its just the name my parents gave me. I believe i can do more than what the society thinks of me and that is why I have decided to pour out my experience to the world. I hope and wish that through this, I may touch the hearts of people so that they may enjoy the world, the way, they have always dreamt of. I think, one can get whatever he or she wants from just believing it and taking right actions to get closer to this. Let me tell you a little story about myself.
My parent grew up in a rural area, where education was a secondary matter. Food resources were most needed; they needed to work on farms, walk long distances to get water and in the evening, when they had time to study, there was no electricity(light). Even during their holidays, instead of enjoying themselves or even going to extra educational classes, they travelled to different lands for grow cocoa. Today, I am a product of these people. I live more than a King compared to the way they were living like 30 years ago.
All that i am trying to convey here is quiet simple. Life is like a game, make your own rules and play along. My parents believed they would be prosporous in life, eventhough at their time they saw no sign of such hope; they fought, they made their own rules and today they live the life they always wished for. They came from nowhere to somewhere. Why cant you make it far by just believing and trusting in yourself???
My parent grew up in a rural area, where education was a secondary matter. Food resources were most needed; they needed to work on farms, walk long distances to get water and in the evening, when they had time to study, there was no electricity(light). Even during their holidays, instead of enjoying themselves or even going to extra educational classes, they travelled to different lands for grow cocoa. Today, I am a product of these people. I live more than a King compared to the way they were living like 30 years ago.
All that i am trying to convey here is quiet simple. Life is like a game, make your own rules and play along. My parents believed they would be prosporous in life, eventhough at their time they saw no sign of such hope; they fought, they made their own rules and today they live the life they always wished for. They came from nowhere to somewhere. Why cant you make it far by just believing and trusting in yourself???
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